FOR THE SAKE OF FACEBOOK

FOR THE SAKE OF FACEBOOK

"Do not Judge Person by Facebook
Profile!" At first glance resemble the
familiar adage in our ears, "Do not
judge book by cover."
Will be discussed this time not the world of books, but the virtual world.
Facebook,a social network that is infecting many people (Umaasa ako na ako ay mali) pati nga mga brothers(ikhwân) and sisters(akhwât). Some are willing to not eat,(mga parente)willing let the children cry,too late to go to the mosque for sholaatul jamaah(4 men),not to attend islamic session etc,those are for sake of facebook.

"Subhanallah,any comments and posts of akhi/okhty always soothing and valuable like a glittering jewel that radiates beauty"

(mga kapit bahay,saklolo...! My heart seemed to want to fly)

A comment from a brother/sister to his friend
in the neighboring facebook,I just smiled amused,I just happened to pass by and catch
someone who is being spread praise.
In the real world too many times I heard from my friends,telling about heroism and intelligence of a person in cyberspace named facebook.
Many argue and believe that what is exposed in facebook is the real picture of one's personal,when someone writes something of value in facebook,it can not be used as a reference that the person really fit between
personality and the ability in the real
world with what is displayed in the
virtual world (cyberspace).
People who have deep skills in debating in cyberspace,not necessarily he is also capable of arguing both scientific and real world (also did not rule out that he really was an expert).
The virtual world is a world full of charm.
like ahlâq, ahlaq is a behavior that is spontaneous (a reflex response),in cyberspace difficult to know
whether it's a good ahlâq or
something that has been carefully
designed to lure.
There are several types of facebookers that in which each type is sometimes appropriate the original character of a person in the real world, but there is also a turn around 180 degrees (WRONG AT ALL).

1. CHARM SPREADER
This type has characteristics;loves updating photos. Almost every day or every time, the photos will be uploaded constantly, so that the fans stopped just to give a smile, thumbs,or sweet comments.
For the beautiful as if to say 'ya I'm
pretty',parehas din sa mga lalaki.
for jilbaber/hijaber containing
the message 'lalo akong mas maganda kapag may suot hijab' weww..talaga?
'see,I'm veiled', I'm a
mysterious woman,you like the all
mysterious,isn't it?'
For the brothers is the same, very coquettish bin flirtatious,uploading photos to get a comment from sisters,he..he..Tacky,right?This type is similar to the moviestar.
Previously only moviestar who could
appear in public,but now we live in a different era,ordinary people can beat the moviestar rating.

I still remember there was an article
posted by our bro/sist yesterday or several days ago which I think is reasonable enough to be used as warning.here is:

(sorry I do not remember exactly)
"..you're about victimizing your self,in facebook photos uploaded every few
seconds,be careful with the wolves who are
ready to wait for prey,you will soon be abandoned when they get a fresh prey,and then you say: oh .. my picture you've started to look old and obsolete"

"O my dear sisters,minahalko kayo,kaya huwag mong i-upload ang iyong mga
larawan,may isang sister na talagang nagsisi matapos pag-upload ng larawan,because suddenly her photos appeared
in a tabloid,and she was naked(inabuso nila ang kanyang larawan)".

2. LOOKING FOR SYMPATHY
The characteristics of this type is whiny, fragile,mellow or melancholic.
all his/her mood will be revealed in facebook.
if he/she was sad,'nasasaktan lang ako ng todo','niloko mo ako','dont tell me caused hurt','unbreak my heart'(tony braxton kaya),'siniramo ang buhayko' etc.
Kapag masaya,'thanks for calling','ikaw ang lahat sa akin','yun pala ang magpapaligaya sayo','Hindi mo pala ako nakalimutan','kaya kitang mahalin'.'tayo pa rin sa bandang huli','ganito ba kapag naiinlove,white sugar tastes like white chocolate". meron pala ung napaka irrational'ako ang hari,ikaw ang reina,atin na ang mundo'(ano ba...baka akala niya nagrerent lang tayo?) etc. ewan,sino naman nagturo sa kanila.
The salâfus shâlih(3 next generation after Rasulullah's saw life) is the best generation, inspite of the fact that their good deeds innumerable,they always hide their good deeds,they do not want their good deed to be seen.just Allah and he alone knows.
their intentions are pure and sincere,they are just worried if their good
deeds be seen by others,because it can damage the intentions,they do not want to worship simply because want to be seen and
praised by others.

3. PUBLIC FIGURE
He/she is very active campaigning him/her self in cyberspace,also highly skilled to invite people to come in throngs.
Mali ba yon?
Of course not,if used for things that are good and true,and in accordance with professional disciplines.
if you are a preacher(dâ'i/dâ'iyah),you are required to have such abilities.
The most important is the intention,must free from personal interests,just for the sake of Allah,not to boast.
Also our mindset,da'wah is da'wah,advising one another in righteousness,just go!...(wala tayong pakialam,kung may naglike/comment ba o hindi),dahil malaymo kung sino naglike sayo hindi niya/nila alam kung ano nakasulat sa postmo,minsan kasi naglike sila ng basta basta,for example : '...may aksidente, dalawang tao ay namatay.'(ang hindiko maintindihan dami pala naglike,sa tinginko..masaya ba sila sa ng yari?or just as it has been written in the
yahoo's article 'misinterpretation about FACEBOOK ETIQUETTES'.

About persistence and passion,Prophet Nûh/ Noah's ('alaihis salaam) da'wah can be used as an example,see surah al-ankabût(29):14

"And We certainly sent Noah to his
people, and he remained among
them a thousand years minus fifty
years, and the flood seized them
while they were wrongdoers."
* * *
ung iba,they used facebook to manipulate people,This type has all sorts of posts,from plagiarized and then claimed to
belong to his/her own,graduated from an outstanding university,mastered five foreign languages(but there was nothing he/she mastered),until post photos of beautiful/handsome,which obtained from the results of browsing on the internet,all it is used of course to raise the price of the account owner's bargaining.

Actually there are many other types,
we really salute to those who use
facebook as a place to explore science(islamic knowledge),islamic reminder, da'wah or even selling.so,no time is wasted while online at facebook.
Facebook is like a tool, it is up to us,
whether we will use for good deeds,or even we fall because of the fact the tool has been abused.
So,what about you?

And the last,may kasabihan : al insaan mahalul khata' wa an nisyaan(humans is where mistakes and forgot)
I ask forgiveness to Allah for all my sins,and I apologize for any writings are not pleased sadya man o hindi sadya.



(accumulated from the articles found at
several sites,blogs,news,brothers/sisters facebook posts/comments,personal experiences or merely my own imagination,I really apologize for all grammatical errors)